Introduction – 2 Types of Women in Islam
Insaan ka asli akhlaq uske rawaiye aur reaction se zahir hota hai. Yeh batata hai ke woh dusron ke saath kaisa sulook karta hai.
Hum apne aas paas aise kayi log dekhte hain jo apne husn e akhlaq ki wajah se taraqqi ki bulandiyon tak pohanch jate hain, jabke kuch log bad-sulooki ki wajah se zaleel-o-khar ho jate hain. Is liye yeh samajhna bohot zaroori hai ke hamein kaisa akhlaq ikhtiyar karna chahiye aur kis ke saath kaisa bartao karna chahiye.
Allah Ta’ala ki tamam makhlooq mein aurat ek azeem aur muqaddas maqam rakhti hai. Woh maa bhi hai, behen bhi, aur shareek-e-hayaat bhi. Isi liye Islam mardon ko aurton ke saath husn-e-sulook, haya aur izzat ka hukm deta hai.
Quran ki roshni mein dekha jaye to 2 types of women in Islam ka zikr milta hai. Ek jo haya aur modesty ki misaal hoti hai, aur doosri jo fitno ka sabab ban sakti hai.
Is article mein hum in dono qisamon ko samjhenge aur yeh bhi jaanenge ke mardon ko unke saath kaisa bartao karna chahiye.
A Letter of Woman for Men
Ek aurat jo apne ghar ke mard Hazraat (Sohar/Bhai/Bete) ko khat likhti hai aur ye batati hai ki tumhe in me se koi aurat najar aaye, tumhare samne aaye to tumhe kaisa react karna chahiye. Tumhe unke saath kaisa sulooq aur bartao karna chahiye.
Aurat likhati hai ki aye mere Humsafar Sohar, aye mere pyare Bhai, aye mere mahboob Bete.
Jab bhi tum bahar jaoge to tumhe ghar se bahar nikalte hi aap ko 2 types ki khawateen milengi. Unse tumhe hamesha respect aur adab se pesh aana hai lakin unke dono se milne ka andaz alag alag hona chahiye.
Two Types of Women
First Type (Example of Zulaikha)
Pehli qism ki wo aurat hai jo Aziz e Misr [Misr (egypt) ka Badshaah] ki biwi Zulaikha ki tarah bemari mein mubtala ho gayi hai, is ne apne aap ko khoobsurat banaya hai, khushbu laga rakhi hai aur makeup kya hai, aur is ki zubaan e haal (Body language) har dekhne wale ko kehti hai; mein tumhare liye tayyar hoon.
Pehli qism ki aurat ke sath Hazrat Yousuf عليه السلام ki tarah bartao/behave karen, apni nigehain neechi rakhen aur kaho,” khuda ki panah”. (Surah Yousuf : 23)
Second Type (Example’s Daughter of Hazrat Shuaib Alaihissalam)
Doosri qisam ki wo aurat jo parda karti hai aur hijaab karti hai, lekin halaat ne unhe apni zaroriyaat poori karne ke liye bahar jane par majboor kar diya, aur woh zubaan e haal se goya Hazrat Shuaibعلیہ السلام ki batiyon ki tarah yeh kehti hai : “jab tak charwahay chalay nah jayen hum apni bakriyon ko pani nahi pilainge aur hamara baap boodha hai”. (Surah Al-Qasas : 23)
Aur doosri qism ki aurat ke sath Hazrat Moosa عليه السلام ke jaisa bartao karo, Shahistagi se madad karo, aur apna rasta lo, quran farmata hai “aur is ne un ( bakrion ) ko pani pilaya aur phir saaye mein chali gayi”. (Surah Al-Qasas : 24)
Rewards of Manners – Lessons for Men
Zahir hai har act ka react bhi hota hai. To pahli qism ki aurat ke saath Hazrat Yousuf عليه السلام ke jaisa iffat/Modesty bartao karne se Hazrat Yousuf عليه السلام ko Aziz e Misr (King of Egypt) bana diya gaya. (Surah Yousuf : 101)
Doosri qism ke aurat ke saath Hazrat Moosa عليه السلام ke jaisa bartao karne ka badla aisa hai jaise Moosa عليه السلام ki khidmat ki wajah se Khuda ne inhen EK achi biwi aur panah di thi. (Surah Al-Qasas : 27)
Conclusion
Hame chahiye ambiya alaihissalam ki zindagio se sabaq hasil kare aur un par amal kare. Allah humein haya, respect aur sahi rawaiya ikhtiyar karne ki taufeeq de. Ameen.
